Are Squirting and Female Ejaculation The Same?

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Let’s talk about female orgasms, squirting, and ejaculation.

You may think that squirting and ejaculation are the same thing, but we have news for you: they are two different things. Here we’ll tell you what squirt is, where female ejaculation comes from, and how it all relates to orgasms.

Welcome to a taboo-free zone! It’s time to discuss female sexuality and explore the distinctions between squirting, female ejaculation, and their relationship to various types of female orgasm.

What is squirt and squirting? 

The terms "squirt" and "squirting" have gained popularity due to their association with sex and female orgasms. Squirt refers to the expulsion of a small amount of fluid by women after sexual stimulation, which can happen alongside orgasm or independently.

Experts explain that squirt originates from the urethra, the same pathway as urine, but it's a clear, odorless liquid that doesn't leave stains. If you feel a strong urge to pee during sex, you might be close to squirting, but it's important to note that squirt is not urine. While many assume squirt is linked to climax, it can occur before, after, or during sexual stimulation.

Learn more about intimate fluids here.

What is the difference between female ejaculation and squirt?

Squirting and female ejaculation are distinct phenomena—they don't originate from the same source and don't feel the same. Female ejaculation is more common than squirting among women. While both are tied to sexual arousal, squirting can occur independently of orgasm, whereas female ejaculation is closely associated with climax.

Female ejaculate, a thick and whitish fluid, is expelled from the Skene's glands situated alongside the urethra, typically just before or during orgasm. The volume of fluid released is often minimal and can be confused with vaginal lubrication.

How do I squirt? 

After hearing so much about it, you probably wonder, "How do I squirt?". Well, the most important thing is not to put pressure on yourself about having to squirt and, remember: if you have sex, practice safe sex. Now, here are some tips that can help you explore this sensation: 

  • First and foremost, relax: find the right time and space to explore your body  
  • Discover the correct location: locate your G-spot and stimulate it.
  • Communication is key: if you are exploring intimacy with someone else, actively listen to your body and tell them what you are experiencing. 
  • Don't suppress: if sexual stimulation makes you start to feel the urge to urinate, don't hold back. You can contract and relax your pelvic floor several times and then just flow with the moment into squirting.  

Understanding and embracing your body will guide you to recognize your desires in relationships and establish a deeper connection with yourself. Menstruation shouldn't hinder you from this journey. Learn more about sex and your period here.